No other person can make you less or more.
You are already whole, perfect complete. Any experience to the contrary is part of your exploration of the greater self.
As we experiment and search about for peace and comfort and satisfaction, playing with power and pain, we all wonder about others and their roles in our lives. Inevitably we imagine other people making us happy or unhappy, more or less.
Assuming there is a deficit in our life, a loss, brings it into our experience. When we attribute this thought to someone else’s life, thinking, acting, speaking, we invent a reality that is just not true and contradicts the nature of life.
When we invent realities which contradict life’s loving essence, life responds with an experience of isolation, pain, sadness, fear. These uncomfortable emotions are in their essence loving and well intended, guiding us back to being loving of our selves through our thinking. This includes recognizing our true nature is love, and therefore infinite.
